Safe Dating

Whether you’re new to dating or returning to it after a while, prioritizing safety is essential. Most towns and cities have a vibrant dating scene with a variety of options to meet new people, from online platforms to social events. Here’s how to stay safe while enjoying the process.

1. Choose Reputable Dating Platforms

When dating online, use well-known and reputable dating apps or websites. These platforms often have safety measures in place, like profile verification and reporting systems. Plentymorefish is one of those but we're not conceited enough to think that you won't use others so please be careful.

2. Keep Personal Information Private

Be cautious about sharing sensitive details, especially early on.

Avoid sharing:

Your full address or exact workplace until you've been on a few dates
Financial information, National Insurance numbers or Date Of Birth
Intimate photos that could be used without your consent.

3. Meet in Public Places

For the first few dates, always meet in public, well-lit locations, such as:

Coffee shops.
Restaurants.
Parks with a lot of foot traffic.

Tell a friend or family member where you’re going and who you’re meeting.

4. Trust Your Instincts

Listen to your gut. If something feels off, don’t hesitate to end the date or conversation.

Signs to watch out for:

Pushy or overly personal behavior.
Discrepancies in their stories or profiles.
Refusal to meet in public or over video chat before a date.

5. Use Technology to Your Advantage

Smartphones and apps can help ensure safety:

Location Sharing: Use apps like WhatsApp or Find My Friends to share your location with a trusted friend.
Check-In Apps: Schedule reminders to check in with someone after your date.

6. Financial Safety

Be wary of anyone who brings up financial issues or requests money, regardless of the reason. Romance scams are prevalent; avoid:

Transferring money.
Sharing online banking details.
Paying for their travel or emergencies.

7. Avoid Alcohol and Drugs

While it’s fine to enjoy a drink on your date, limit alcohol consumption to stay alert. Avoid accepting drinks you haven’t seen prepared and don’t leave your drink unattended.

8. Report Suspicious Behavior

If someone makes you uncomfortable or violates our platform’s rules, report them immediately. Most dating platforms have easy reporting mechanisms for inappropriate behavior.

9. Post-Date Reflection

After the date, take time to reflect. Was your date respectful? Did you feel safe and comfortable? Use your observations to decide if you’d like to see them again.

Emergency Contacts

In case of an emergency:

Speak to staff at the venue 'Ask for Angela' People who feel unsafe, vulnerable or threatened can discreetly seek help by approaching venue staff and asking them for 'Angela'. This code-phrase will indicate to staff that they require help with their situation and a trained member of staff will then look to support and assist them. More info can be found here:
Use the non-emergency police number, 101, for advice or to report suspicious activity.
Don't be afraid to involve the Emergency Services

Dating should be fun and exciting, but safety is non-negotiable. With a little preparation and vigilance, you can focus on building meaningful connections while staying secure.