How to Make a Dating Profile That Gets More Matches

Steve Manley
Dec 12, 2025
3 min read

Updated: Dec 17, 2025

Creating a dating profile that actually gets matches isn’t about looking perfect, it’s about standing out authentically. Whether you’re on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Facebook Dating, or any niche app, the same principles apply: clarity, personality, and intention. Here’s how to build a profile that attracts the right people and boosts your match rate.

What Makes a Dating Profile Attractive

Clear photos

Your photos are the first thing people notice, so keep them sharp and distraction-free. Use high-resolution images with good natural lighting. Avoid blurry nightlife shots, heavy filters, or group photos where viewers have to guess who you are. Aim for images that make you look approachable and confident.

Strong bio opener

Start your bio with a hook that grabs attention, something intriguing, humorous, or bold. Your opener should make someone want to read more or even start a conversation immediately. Examples include:“Currently mastering the art of weekend brunch.”“I will absolutely beat you at Mario Kart.”

Showing personality

People don’t match with pictures alone—they match with stories. Share hints about your hobbies, passions, or quirks. Mention what you’re looking for and what makes you unique. Authenticity always outperforms generic bios.

Best Photo Types to Use

Smiling photo

Smiling instantly increases your approachability and trust factor. Choose a photo where your smile looks natural, think candid over stiff or overly posed.

Full-body photo

Apps often prioritise transparency. A clear full-body photo avoids misunderstandings and builds trust. Keep the background simple and your posture relaxed.

Lifestyle/action photo

Action shots, biking (as above), hiking, cooking, playing an instrument, tell a story about your lifestyle. They also make great conversation starters. Choose activities you genuinely enjoy so matches get an authentic glimpse of your life.

Bio Templates

Friendly & Fun“Plant parent. Road-trip enthusiast. Always down for coffee or a sunset walk. Looking for someone who laughs easily and loves good conversation.”

Short & Confident“Work hard. Travel often. Looking for chemistry and good energy.”

Hobby-Focused“Weekends = hiking trails, cozy cafés, and experimenting with new recipes. If you’ve got a favourite hike, tell me!”

Prompt-Style “Two truths and a lie: I ran a marathon, I can juggle, I once met Ryan Reynolds in an elevator.”

Use these templates as a foundation, then personalise with details that are true to you.

Common Profile Mistakes

Only using group photos: Makes it hard for someone to know who you are.
No bio or a one-word bio: Shows low effort and reduces match quality.
Too many selfies: Mix in candids and outdoor shots for better balance.
Negative statements: Avoid “No drama,” “Don’t message me if…,” or anything that sounds harsh.
Heavily filtered photos: They look less authentic and reduce trust.